Nothing is constant, except our breath, but it will also end one day.
Oh, I saw the strawberry cake again today … but there were no strawberries, just raspberries. So it was not my strawberry cake I knew …
It was still a cake and yes, it was a fruit cake …
It tastes fruity and still sweet, just different … but it was still a fruit cake in the end.
I like raspberries..or fruit cake … but I didn´t eat it.
Emma (my inner voice): It will never be the same again
It was a great time , no reason to be sad.
Emma: Hello? you were very happy, you remember?
Yes, i was very happy for a short time and that’s the good thing. Being happy is just a feeling and the feeling can be triggered by everything. It can be moments, people and things. The feeling of happiness is in us.
Emma: Oh, come on, as if you would not like to have a piece of strawberry cake … always the same … who wants raspberry cake, if you have tasted of the delicious strawberry cake?
Things change…
Emma: How am I supposed to trust in something when everything changes anyway? Yesterday still strawberry cake and then there is only raspberries
…pure disappointment …
Disappointment? The time when we ate some pieces of strawberry cake was nice. we grow in every experience we make. We also learn to enjoy the time in the NOW, because we don´t know how long it will be and when it ends.
Emma: the lollipop was taken away from you three weeks ago. Sometimes things change from one day to the next without any reasons. That isn´t really nice.
Lollipop?
Emma: You know exactly who I mean … the frog lollipop you would have loved to eat and keep it ..
I don´t need to understand why others opt for a different way, because it doesn´t change the fact ..
It is a raspberry cake and the frog lollipop is gone.
Emma: Why is the frog lollipop is gone?
I don’t know, but it doesn’t matter. Maybe it was eaten, broken down or stucks somewhere.
Emma: But the Frog lollipop was already tasted so fucking delicious… I still want it…
Nice memory, but we don’t live in the past, just in the now.
Fact is: its gone !!!
Emma: And why are you planning the future and being sad when things get different?
I thought changes are great?
Emma … you should always have goals to pursue, but
THE ROUTE IS THE GOAL
On the way you make your experience and grow with them. That is life in the now.
Don´t worry about what happened. You can’t change it. Don´t think about what could be … because nobody knows ….
The problem is, when the day is over… you didn´t use the day to live, you were lost in thoughts with things you can´t influence anyway. You should deal with the present in which you are able to act…
even if the cake has changed and the Frog lollipop is gone …
What remains are many beautiful memories thanks for that …
What will be, will be
The one, who wants to stay with you, stays. We have to do anything for it, just be ourselves.
Be patient…
Emma: i hate to wait…
_stay_wonderful_
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